Can body language really reveal our interest and our desire to seduce? Of course yes!
Looks, gestures, posture, skin touching, changing the tone of voice: the art of seduction involves everyone in the senses revealing in body language a series of non-verbal signals through which, however, we communicate all our seductive power. How do you seduce yourself using body language? Our unconscious knows it well and the most instinctive and profound part of our ego is very skilled in this fascinating art.
Moving in sync, trying to be in the same field of vision as the person we want to attract, tilting the head in a certain way, or adopting a particular body posture is all clear signals of seduction that make body language a real map of specific indicators of our interest in a particular person and of our desire to catalyze his attention towards us. Here’s how she seduces herself using body language and what the most revealing signals are.
MAKE EYE CONTACT
Let’s start with a basic assumption. Body language often cannot be controlled. Some more or less obvious details relating to gestures, nods, posture, inclinations, and slow or sudden movements, are completely natural and we put them into play without even realizing it. And this is what happens in the seductive sphere. When we are interested in a potential partner, we reveal a series of indicators through our bodies that are nothing more than seductive calls.
Our desire to attract is evident from the beginning, with simple eye contact. It is a small gesture, natural, spontaneous, and yet so powerful and attractive. Establishing eye contact with the person who attracts us and accompanying it with a sincere and natural smile is the first essential piece of the art of seduction. But, mind you, it’s not about staring at the person we like. It is a question of looking at the horizon and from time to time returning our gaze to the person who attracts us. Once eye contact is established, the art of seduction can begin.
ASSUME A RELAXED POSTURE
Here we are! We have made eye contact and want to connect with the one who has caught our attention so much. Well, then let’s not underestimate the body language related to our posture. Have you ever heard of kinesics? It is the science that studies analyzes and interprets the non-verbal behaviors associated with posture and related gestures. A very broad field of investigation has demonstrated how some specific postures reveal themselves as a clear sign of openness or closure toward what surrounds us.
One of the easiest signals to decode? Arms folded! If someone interests you and you want to start a conversation, avoid taking this posture. Arms folded put a wall between us and the person we want to conquer. They give the idea of detachment, and coldness and could mean that unconsciously we don’t like that person that much. If your interest is sincere and you want to give knowledge a chance, assume a relaxed posture, do not cross your arms, and orient your body towards the other person, perhaps tilting it slightly forward. It will be a clear sign of interest and propensity for knowledge.
BITING THE LOWER LIP
You know when we’re about to have to take a tough exam and we start biting our lips nervously? This is not the signal we are talking about. Lips are central to the game of seduction and biting them indicates attraction. But be careful, it’s not about doing it aggressively or showing your teeth. Doing it this way does not indicate interest, it indicates aggression, nervousness, and sometimes anxiety.
The signal of interest linked to the lips is instead revealed in the delicate and sporadic nibbling of the lower lip. A similar argument applies to the gesture of the tongue passing over the lips. If the gesture is quick then it is not a sign of seduction, but a detail that reveals tension. If, on the other hand, the passage of the tongue takes place more slowly, then we are faced with a clear sign that indicates the desire to seduce.
PLAYING WITH HAIR
Raise your hand who has never done it! Hair represents a powerful weapon of seduction and attraction and we are aware of it. This is why we love running our fingers through them, undoing ponytails at the right time, and curling that side strand that can drive the person in front of us crazy. An unconscious gesture that those who want to seduce do with their hair is to move it, showing off the neck.
What does it mean? The neck shown above all in its lateral part can indicate the desire to get naked, to accept the risk of becoming vulnerable, and to launch an arrow of pure seduction capable of attracting a potential partner in a very powerful way.
